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survey regarding cheating

Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 3:59 pm
by Tina N Blair
Hi everyone. My little sister who's in high school is doing an Independent Study Unit on infidelity and it would really be appreciated if you could answer some questions. All info. will be confidential--no names are needed. Just place an 'x' in the appropriate spot. Thanks so much.

what if your age group?
[ ] 12 - 17
[ ] 18 - 25
[ ] 26 - 31
[ ] over

what is your gender?
[ ] male
[ ] female

has your boyfriend or girlfriend ever cheated on you?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

have you ever been the 'other' person in the relationship cheating with someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] was not aware

are your parents divorced?
[ ] yes
[ ] no

if so, was it because of infidelity issues?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

would you ever just 'forgive and forget' if your partner strayed?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

which would hurt more?
[ ] your partner goes out on a date with someone else that he or she is very attracted to while in a relationship with you
[ ] your partner has a one-night stand with someone else that he or she is not serious about

what do you think causes infidelity?
[ ] lack of communication in the relationship
[ ] attraction to someone else while still attracted to his or her partner
[ ] family patterns (ie. divorced parents, abuse, etc.)
[ ] temptations
[ ] other (please specify):______________________________________________________

do you think the internet has provided another way for cheating because it is more secretive?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if you suspected your boyfriend or girlfriend of cheating on you, would you:
[ ] follow them to confirm your suspicion
[ ] confront them with your doubts
[ ] not say anything
[ ] wouldn't know what you would do

if your partner did stray, would you want to hear all the details of the affair?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

in your opinion, who tends to cheat more?
[ ] males
[ ] females
[ ] both

while married, do you think couples counselling or marriage education classes would prevent infidelity?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if it healthier for parents to stay together despite cheating on each other because they have children?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

in which scenario, who do you think is more likely to cheat while the married couple is going through a rough time in their relationship?
[ ] the wife has a very close relationship with her best male friend
[ ] the husband is working with a beautiful woman

do you think the betrayed person in the failed relationship is less likely to cheat after the experience?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

is the betrayed person justified if they cheat on someone else because they have been cheated on themselves?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

children with parents who cheated and are divorced, are they more likely to have trust issues with the opposite sex?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you agree with the phrase, 'once a cheater, always a cheater'?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think the media has played a part in encouraging flings?
[ ] yes
[ ] no

do you think it's true that there is a double standard regarding this topic? if the guy cheats, he's hot stuff because he can have more than one girl but if the girl cheats, she's a tramp.
[ ] yes
[ ] no

has the cheating rate increased over the years?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if the individual was drunk and cheated on his or her girlfriend, is it easier to forgive?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

are you in a serious relationship right now?
[ ] yes
[ ] no

if so, do you ever doubt your girlfriend or boyfriend's faithfulness?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] prefer not to answer

if there is a secret affair, is it likely to ocme out in the open eventually?
[ ] yes
[ ] no

do you think that if there was a guaranteed way for no one to find out about affairs, would more people cheat?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think it's ok to cheat?
[ ] yes
[ ] no

Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 4:46 pm
by Lorastar
what if your age group?
[ ] 12 - 17
[x] 18 - 25
[ ] 26 - 31
[ ] over

what is your gender?
[ ] male
[x] female

has your boyfriend or girlfriend ever cheated on you?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

have you ever been the 'other' person in the relationship cheating with someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] was not aware

are your parents divorced?
[ ] yes
[x] no

if so, was it because of infidelity issues?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

would you ever just 'forgive and forget' if your partner strayed?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

which would hurt more?
[x] your partner goes out on a date with someone else that he or she is very attracted to while in a relationship with you
[ ] your partner has a one-night stand with someone else that he or she is not serious about

what do you think causes infidelity?
[ ] lack of communication in the relationship
[x] attraction to someone else while still attracted to his or her partner
[ ] family patterns (ie. divorced parents, abuse, etc.)
[ ] temptations
[ ] other (please specify):______________________________________________________

do you think the internet has provided another way for cheating because it is more secretive?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if you suspected your boyfriend or girlfriend of cheating on you, would you:
[ ] follow them to confirm your suspicion
[x] confront them with your doubts
[ ] not say anything
[ ] wouldn't know what you would do

if your partner did stray, would you want to hear all the details of the affair?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

in your opinion, who tends to cheat more?
[x] males
[ ] females
[ ] both

while married, do you think couples counselling or marriage education classes would prevent infidelity?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

if it healthier for parents to stay together despite cheating on each other because they have children?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

in which scenario, who do you think is more likely to cheat while the married couple is going through a rough time in their relationship?
[x] the wife has a very close relationship with her best male friend
[ ] the husband is working with a beautiful woman

do you think the betrayed person in the failed relationship is less likely to cheat after the experience?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

is the betrayed person justified if they cheat on someone else because they have been cheated on themselves?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

children with parents who cheated and are divorced, are they more likely to have trust issues with the opposite sex?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you agree with the phrase, 'once a cheater, always a cheater'?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think the media has played a part in encouraging flings?
[x] yes
[ ] no

do you think it's true that there is a double standard regarding this topic? if the guy cheats, he's hot stuff because he can have more than one girl but if the girl cheats, she's a tramp.
[ ] yes
[x] no

has the cheating rate increased over the years?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

if the individual was drunk and cheated on his or her girlfriend, is it easier to forgive?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

are you in a serious relationship right now?
[x] yes
[ ] no

if so, do you ever doubt your girlfriend or boyfriend's faithfulness?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] prefer not to answer

if there is a secret affair, is it likely to ocme out in the open eventually?
[x] yes
[ ] no

do you think that if there was a guaranteed way for no one to find out about affairs, would more people cheat?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think it's ok to cheat?
[ ] yes
[x] no
______

Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 7:10 pm
by Icequeen
what if your age group?
[ ] 12 - 17
[ ] 18 - 25
[x ] 26 - 31
[ ] over

what is your gender?
[ ] male
[x ] female

has your boyfriend or girlfriend ever cheated on you?
[x ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

have you ever been the 'other' person in the relationship cheating with someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
[ ] yes
[ x] no
[ ] was not aware

are your parents divorced?
[ x] yes
[ ] no

if so, was it because of infidelity issues?
[ ] yes
[x ] no
[ ] unsure

would you ever just 'forgive and forget' if your partner strayed?
[ ] yes
[x ] no
[ ] unsure

which would hurt more?
[x ] your partner goes out on a date with someone else that he or she is very attracted to while in a relationship with you
[ ] your partner has a one-night stand with someone else that he or she is not serious about

what do you think causes infidelity?
[ x] lack of communication in the relationship
[ ] attraction to someone else while still attracted to his or her partner
[ ] family patterns (ie. divorced parents, abuse, etc.)
[ ] temptations
[ ] other (please specify):______________________________________________________

do you think the internet has provided another way for cheating because it is more secretive?
[x ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if you suspected your boyfriend or girlfriend of cheating on you, would you:
[x ] follow them to confirm your suspicion
[ ] confront them with your doubts
[ ] not say anything
[ ] wouldn't know what you would do

if your partner did stray, would you want to hear all the details of the affair?
[ ] yes
[x ] no
[ ] unsure

in your opinion, who tends to cheat more?
[x ] males
[ ] females
[ ] both

while married, do you think couples counselling or marriage education classes would prevent infidelity?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x ] unsure

if it healthier for parents to stay together despite cheating on each other because they have children?
[ ] yes
[x ] no
[ ] unsure

in which scenario, who do you think is more likely to cheat while the married couple is going through a rough time in their relationship?
[ ] the wife has a very close relationship with her best male friend
[x ] the husband is working with a beautiful woman

do you think the betrayed person in the failed relationship is less likely to cheat after the experience?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ x] unsure

is the betrayed person justified if they cheat on someone else because they have been cheated on themselves?
[ ] yes
[x ] no
[ ] unsure

children with parents who cheated and are divorced, are they more likely to have trust issues with the opposite sex?
[ ] yes
[ x] no
[ ] unsure

do you agree with the phrase, 'once a cheater, always a cheater'?
[ ] yes
[x ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think the media has played a part in encouraging flings?
[ ] yes
[ x] no

do you think it's true that there is a double standard regarding this topic? if the guy cheats, he's hot stuff because he can have more than one girl but if the girl cheats, she's a tramp.
[ x] yes
[ ] no

has the cheating rate increased over the years?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ x] unsure

if the individual was drunk and cheated on his or her girlfriend, is it easier to forgive?
[ ] yes
[x ] no
[ ] unsure

are you in a serious relationship right now?
[ x] yes
[ ] no

if so, do you ever doubt your girlfriend or boyfriend's faithfulness?
[ x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] prefer not to answer

if there is a secret affair, is it likely to ocme out in the open eventually?
[x ] yes
[ ] no

do you think that if there was a guaranteed way for no one to find out about affairs, would more people cheat?
[x ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think it's ok to cheat?
[ ] yes
[ x] no

Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 7:15 pm
by FamersAmers
what if your age group?
[ ] 12 - 17
[X] 18 - 25
[ ] 26 - 31
[ ] over

what is your gender?
[ ] male
[x] female

has your boyfriend or girlfriend ever cheated on you?
[X] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

have you ever been the 'other' person in the relationship cheating with someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[] was not aware

are your parents divorced?
[ ] yes
[X] no

if so, was it because of infidelity issues?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] unsure

would you ever just 'forgive and forget' if your partner strayed?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] unsure

which would hurt more?
[X] your partner goes out on a date with someone else that he or she is very attracted to while in a relationship with you
[ ] your partner has a one-night stand with someone else that he or she is not serious about

what do you think causes infidelity?
[X] lack of communication in the relationship
[X] attraction to someone else while still attracted to his or her partner
[ ] family patterns (ie. divorced parents, abuse, etc.)
[X] temptations
[ ] other (please specify):______________________________________________________

do you think the internet has provided another way for cheating because it is more secretive?
[X] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if you suspected your boyfriend or girlfriend of cheating on you, would you:
[ ] follow them to confirm your suspicion
[X] confront them with your doubts
[ ] not say anything
[ ] wouldn't know what you would do

if your partner did stray, would you want to hear all the details of the affair?
[X] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

in your opinion, who tends to cheat more?
[X] males
[ ] females
[ ] both

while married, do you think couples counselling or marriage education classes would prevent infidelity?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] unsure

if it healthier for parents to stay together despite cheating on each other because they have children?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] unsure

in which scenario, who do you think is more likely to cheat while the married couple is going through a rough time in their relationship?
[ ] the wife has a very close relationship with her best male friend
[ ] the husband is working with a beautiful woman

do you think the betrayed person in the failed relationship is less likely to cheat after the experience?
[X] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

is the betrayed person justified if they cheat on someone else because they have been cheated on themselves?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] unsure

children with parents who cheated and are divorced, are they more likely to have trust issues with the opposite sex?
[X] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you agree with the phrase, 'once a cheater, always a cheater'?
[X] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think the media has played a part in encouraging flings?
[X] yes
[ ] no

do you think it's true that there is a double standard regarding this topic? if the guy cheats, he's hot stuff because he can have more than one girl but if the girl cheats, she's a tramp.
[X] yes
[ ] no

has the cheating rate increased over the years?
[X] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if the individual was drunk and cheated on his or her girlfriend, is it easier to forgive?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] unsure

are you in a serious relationship right now?
[ ] yes
[X] no

if so, do you ever doubt your girlfriend or boyfriend's faithfulness?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] prefer not to answer

if there is a secret affair, is it likely to ocme out in the open eventually?
[X] yes
[ ] no

do you think that if there was a guaranteed way for no one to find out about affairs, would more people cheat?
[X] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think it's ok to cheat?
[ ] yes
[X] no

Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 8:01 pm
by jbangelo
what if your age group?
[ ] 12 - 17
[x] 18 - 25
[ ] 26 - 31
[ ] over

what is your gender?
[ ] male
[x] female

has your boyfriend or girlfriend ever cheated on you?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

have you ever been the 'other' person in the relationship cheating with someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] was not aware

are your parents divorced?
[ ] yes
[x] no

if so, was it because of infidelity issues?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

would you ever just 'forgive and forget' if your partner strayed?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

which would hurt more?
[x] your partner goes out on a date with someone else that he or she is very attracted to while in a relationship with you
[ ] your partner has a one-night stand with someone else that he or she is not serious about

what do you think causes infidelity?
[ ] lack of communication in the relationship
[ ] attraction to someone else while still attracted to his or her partner
[ ] family patterns (ie. divorced parents, abuse, etc.)
[x] temptations
[ ] other (please specify):______________________________________________________

do you think the internet has provided another way for cheating because it is more secretive?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if you suspected your boyfriend or girlfriend of cheating on you, would you:
[ ] follow them to confirm your suspicion
[ ] confront them with your doubts
[ ] not say anything
[x] wouldn't know what you would do

if your partner did stray, would you want to hear all the details of the affair?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

in your opinion, who tends to cheat more?
[x] males
[ ] females
[ ] both

while married, do you think couples counselling or marriage education classes would prevent infidelity?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

if it healthier for parents to stay together despite cheating on each other because they have children?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

in which scenario, who do you think is more likely to cheat while the married couple is going through a rough time in their relationship?
[ ] the wife has a very close relationship with her best male friend
[x] the husband is working with a beautiful woman

do you think the betrayed person in the failed relationship is less likely to cheat after the experience?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

is the betrayed person justified if they cheat on someone else because they have been cheated on themselves?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

children with parents who cheated and are divorced, are they more likely to have trust issues with the opposite sex?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you agree with the phrase, 'once a cheater, always a cheater'?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

do you think the media has played a part in encouraging flings?
[x] yes
[ ] no

do you think it's true that there is a double standard regarding this topic? if the guy cheats, he's hot stuff because he can have more than one girl but if the girl cheats, she's a tramp.
[ ] yes
[x] no

has the cheating rate increased over the years?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

if the individual was drunk and cheated on his or her girlfriend, is it easier to forgive?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

are you in a serious relationship right now?
[ ] yes
[x] no

if so, do you ever doubt your girlfriend or boyfriend's faithfulness?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] prefer not to answer

if there is a secret affair, is it likely to ocme out in the open eventually?
[x] yes
[ ] no

do you think that if there was a guaranteed way for no one to find out about affairs, would more people cheat?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think it's ok to cheat?
[ ] yes
[x] no

Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 8:41 pm
by pLANETv33n3ss
hehehe... this is fun

what if your age group?
[x] 12 - 17
[ ] 18 - 25
[ ] 26 - 31
[ ] over

what is your gender?
[ ] male
[x] female

has your boyfriend or girlfriend ever cheated on you?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

have you ever been the 'other' person in the relationship cheating with someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] was not aware

are your parents divorced?
[ ] yes
[x] no

if so, was it because of infidelity issues?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

would you ever just 'forgive and forget' if your partner strayed?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

which would hurt more?
[x] your partner goes out on a date with someone else that he or she is very attracted to while in a relationship with you
[ ] your partner has a one-night stand with someone else that he or she is not serious about

what do you think causes infidelity?
[ ] lack of communication in the relationship
[ ] attraction to someone else while still attracted to his or her partner
[x] family patterns (ie. divorced parents, abuse, etc.)
[ ] temptations
[ ] other (please specify):______________________________________________________

do you think the internet has provided another way for cheating because it is more secretive?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if you suspected your boyfriend or girlfriend of cheating on you, would you:
[x] follow them to confirm your suspicion
[ ] confront them with your doubts
[ ] not say anything
[ ] wouldn't know what you would do

if your partner did stray, would you want to hear all the details of the affair?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

in your opinion, who tends to cheat more?
[ ] males
[ ] females
[x] both

while married, do you think couples counselling or marriage education classes would prevent infidelity?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

if it healthier for parents to stay together despite cheating on each other because they have children?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

in which scenario, who do you think is more likely to cheat while the married couple is going through a rough time in their relationship?
[ ] the wife has a very close relationship with her best male friend
[x] the husband is working with a beautiful woman

do you think the betrayed person in the failed relationship is less likely to cheat after the experience?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

is the betrayed person justified if they cheat on someone else because they have been cheated on themselves?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

children with parents who cheated and are divorced, are they more likely to have trust issues with the opposite sex?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you agree with the phrase, 'once a cheater, always a cheater'?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

do you think the media has played a part in encouraging flings?
[x] yes
[ ] no

do you think it's true that there is a double standard regarding this topic? if the guy cheats, he's hot stuff because he can have more than one girl but if the girl cheats, she's a tramp.
[x] yes
[ ] no

has the cheating rate increased over the years?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if the individual was drunk and cheated on his or her girlfriend, is it easier to forgive?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

are you in a serious relationship right now?
[ ] yes
[x] no

if so, do you ever doubt your girlfriend or boyfriend's faithfulness?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] prefer not to answer

if there is a secret affair, is it likely to ocme out in the open eventually?
[x] yes
[ ] no

do you think that if there was a guaranteed way for no one to find out about affairs, would more people cheat?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think it's ok to cheat?
[ ] yes
[x] no

Re: survey regarding cheating

Posted: Mon Dec 12, 2005 9:31 pm
by maxandliz4ever1357
[X] 12 - 17
[ ] 18 - 25
[ ] 26 - 31
[ ] over

what is your gender?
[ ] male
[X] female

has your boyfriend or girlfriend ever cheated on you?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] unsure

have you ever been the 'other' person in the relationship cheating with someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] was not aware

are your parents divorced?
[ ] yes
[X] no

if so, was it because of infidelity issues?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] unsure

would you ever just 'forgive and forget' if your partner strayed?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] unsure

which would hurt more?
[X] your partner goes out on a date with someone else that he or she is very attracted to while in a relationship with you
[ ] your partner has a one-night stand with someone else that he or she is not serious about

what do you think causes infidelity?
[ ] lack of communication in the relationship
[X] attraction to someone else while still attracted to his or her partner
[ ] family patterns (ie. divorced parents, abuse, etc.)
[ ] temptations
[ ] other (please specify):______________________________________________________

do you think the internet has provided another way for cheating because it is more secretive?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[X] unsure

if you suspected your boyfriend or girlfriend of cheating on you, would you:
[ ] follow them to confirm your suspicion
[X] confront them with your doubts
[ ] not say anything
[ ] wouldn't know what you would do

if your partner did stray, would you want to hear all the details of the affair?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] unsure

in your opinion, who tends to cheat more?
[X] males
[ ] females
[ ] both

while married, do you think couples counselling or marriage education classes would prevent infidelity?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[X] unsure

if it healthier for parents to stay together despite cheating on each other because they have children?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] unsure

in which scenario, who do you think is more likely to cheat while the married couple is going through a rough time in their relationship?
[ ] the wife has a very close relationship with her best male friend
[X] the husband is working with a beautiful woman

do you think the betrayed person in the failed relationship is less likely to cheat after the experience?
[X] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

is the betrayed person justified if they cheat on someone else because they have been cheated on themselves?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[X] unsure

children with parents who cheated and are divorced, are they more likely to have trust issues with the opposite sex?
[X] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you agree with the phrase, 'once a cheater, always a cheater'?
[X] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think the media has played a part in encouraging flings?
[ ] yes
[X] no

do you think it's true that there is a double standard regarding this topic? if the guy cheats, he's hot stuff because he can have more than one girl but if the girl cheats, she's a tramp.
[X] yes
[ ] no
(Question: Is it that I think the double standard is true, or that I think there is one? I think there is one, but I don't think it's true)

has the cheating rate increased over the years?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[X] unsure

if the individual was drunk and cheated on his or her girlfriend, is it easier to forgive?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] unsure

are you in a serious relationship right now?
[ ] yes
[X] no

if so, do you ever doubt your girlfriend or boyfriend's faithfulness?
[ ] yes
[X] no
[ ] prefer not to answer

if there is a secret affair, is it likely to come out in the open eventually?
[X] yes
[ ] no

do you think that if there was a guaranteed way for no one to find out about affairs, would more people cheat?
[X] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think it's ok to cheat?
[ ] yes
[X] no

Posted: Tue Dec 13, 2005 12:06 am
by ChemChic
what if your age group?
[ ] 12 - 17
[x] 18 - 25
[ ] 26 - 31
[ ] over

what is your gender?
[ ] male
[x] female

has your boyfriend or girlfriend ever cheated on you?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

have you ever been the 'other' person in the relationship cheating with someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] was not aware

are your parents divorced?
[ ] yes
[x] no

if so, was it because of infidelity issues?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

would you ever just 'forgive and forget' if your partner strayed?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

which would hurt more?
[x] your partner goes out on a date with someone else that he or she is very attracted to while in a relationship with you
[ ] your partner has a one-night stand with someone else that he or she is not serious about

what do you think causes infidelity?
[ ] lack of communication in the relationship
[ ] attraction to someone else while still attracted to his or her partner
[ ] family patterns (ie. divorced parents, abuse, etc.)
[ ] temptations
[x] other (please specify): All of the above can contribute to infidelity.

do you think the internet has provided another way for cheating because it is more secretive?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if you suspected your boyfriend or girlfriend of cheating on you, would you:
[ ] follow them to confirm your suspicion
[x] confront them with your doubts
[ ] not say anything
[ ] wouldn't know what you would do

if your partner did stray, would you want to hear all the details of the affair?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

in your opinion, who tends to cheat more?
[ ] males
[ ] females
[x] both

while married, do you think couples counselling or marriage education classes would prevent infidelity?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if it healthier for parents to stay together despite cheating on each other because they have children?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

in which scenario, who do you think is more likely to cheat while the married couple is going through a rough time in their relationship?
[x] the wife has a very close relationship with her best male friend
[ ] the husband is working with a beautiful woman

do you think the betrayed person in the failed relationship is less likely to cheat after the experience?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

is the betrayed person justified if they cheat on someone else because they have been cheated on themselves?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

children with parents who cheated and are divorced, are they more likely to have trust issues with the opposite sex?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you agree with the phrase, 'once a cheater, always a cheater'?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

do you think the media has played a part in encouraging flings?
[x] yes
[ ] no

do you think it's true that there is a double standard regarding this topic? if the guy cheats, he's hot stuff because he can have more than one girl but if the girl cheats, she's a tramp.
[x] yes
[ ] no

has the cheating rate increased over the years?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if the individual was drunk and cheated on his or her girlfriend, is it easier to forgive?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

are you in a serious relationship right now?
[x] yes
[ ] no

if so, do you ever doubt your girlfriend or boyfriend's faithfulness?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] prefer not to answer

if there is a secret affair, is it likely to ocme out in the open eventually?
[x] yes
[ ] no

do you think that if there was a guaranteed way for no one to find out about affairs, would more people cheat?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

do you think it's ok to cheat?
[ ] yes
[x] no

Posted: Thu Dec 15, 2005 7:06 am
by lazza
what if your age group?
[ ] 12 - 17
[ ] 18 - 25
[x] 26 - 31
[ ] over

what is your gender?
[ ] male
[x] female

has your boyfriend or girlfriend ever cheated on you?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

have you ever been the 'other' person in the relationship cheating with someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] was not aware

are your parents divorced?
[ ] yes
[x]no

if so, was it because of infidelity issues?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

would you ever just 'forgive and forget' if your partner strayed?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

which would hurt more?
[x] your partner goes out on a date with someone else that he or she is very attracted to while in a relationship with you
[ ] your partner has a one-night stand with someone else that he or she is not serious about

what do you think causes infidelity?
[ ] lack of communication in the relationship
[ ] attraction to someone else while still attracted to his or her partner
[ ] family patterns (ie. divorced parents, abuse, etc.)
[ ] temptations
[x][ ] other (please specify):____lack of morals and respect for people.

do you think the internet has provided another way for cheating because it is more secretive?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if you suspected your boyfriend or girlfriend of cheating on you, would you:
[ ] follow them to confirm your suspicion
[x] confront them with your doubts
[ ] not say anything
[ ] wouldn't know what you would do

if your partner did stray, would you want to hear all the details of the affair?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

in your opinion, who tends to cheat more?
[x] males
[ ] females
[ ] both

while married, do you think couples counselling or marriage education classes would prevent infidelity?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

if it healthier for parents to stay together despite cheating on each other because they have children?
[ ] yes
[x]no
[ ] unsure

in which scenario, who do you think is more likely to cheat while the married couple is going through a rough time in their relationship?
[x] the wife has a very close relationship with her best male friend
[ ] the husband is working with a beautiful woman

do you think the betrayed person in the failed relationship is less likely to cheat after the experience?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

is the betrayed person justified if they cheat on someone else because they have been cheated on themselves?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

children with parents who cheated and are divorced, are they more likely to have trust issues with the opposite sex?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you agree with the phrase, 'once a cheater, always a cheater'?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think the media has played a part in encouraging flings?
[x] yes
[ ] no

do you think it's true that there is a double standard regarding this topic? if the guy cheats, he's hot stuff because he can have more than one girl but if the girl cheats, she's a tramp.
[ ] yes
[x] no

has the cheating rate increased over the years?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if the individual was drunk and cheated on his or her girlfriend, is it easier to forgive?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

are you in a serious relationship right now?
[ ] yes
[x]no

if so, do you ever doubt your girlfriend or boyfriend's faithfulness?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[ ] prefer not to answer

if there is a secret affair, is it likely to ocme out in the open eventually?
[x] yes
[ ] no

do you think that if there was a guaranteed way for no one to find out about affairs, would more people cheat?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think it's ok to cheat?
[ ] yes
[x] no

Re: survey regarding cheating

Posted: Thu Dec 15, 2005 8:37 am
by Calinia
what if your age group?
[ ] 12 - 17
[x] 18 - 25
[ ] 26 - 31
[ ] over

what is your gender?
[ ] male
[x] female

has your boyfriend or girlfriend ever cheated on you?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

have you ever been the 'other' person in the relationship cheating with someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] was not aware

are your parents divorced?
[ ] yes
[x] no

if so, was it because of infidelity issues?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

would you ever just 'forgive and forget' if your partner strayed?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

which would hurt more?
[ ] your partner goes out on a date with someone else that he or she is very attracted to while in a relationship with you
[x] your partner has a one-night stand with someone else that he or she is not serious about

what do you think causes infidelity?
[x] lack of communication in the relationship
[x] attraction to someone else while still attracted to his or her partner
[ ] family patterns (ie. divorced parents, abuse, etc.)
[ ] temptations
[x] other (please specify): in a serious relationship, cheating is an symptom of unresolved or unresolveable issues

do you think the internet has provided another way for cheating because it is more secretive?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

if you suspected your boyfriend or girlfriend of cheating on you, would you:
[ ] follow them to confirm your suspicion
[x] confront them with your doubts
[ ] not say anything
[ ] wouldn't know what you would do

if your partner did stray, would you want to hear all the details of the affair?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

in your opinion, who tends to cheat more?
[x] males
[ ] females
[ ] both

while married, do you think couples counselling or marriage education classes would prevent infidelity?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
[x] unsure

if it healthier for parents to stay together despite cheating on each other because they have children?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

in which scenario, who do you think is more likely to cheat while the married couple is going through a rough time in their relationship?
[ ] the wife has a very close relationship with her best male friend
[x] the husband is working with a beautiful woman

do you think the betrayed person in the failed relationship is less likely to cheat after the experience?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

is the betrayed person justified if they cheat on someone else because they have been cheated on themselves?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

children with parents who cheated and are divorced, are they more likely to have trust issues with the opposite sex?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

do you agree with the phrase, 'once a cheater, always a cheater'?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think the media has played a part in encouraging flings?
[ ] yes
[x] no

do you think it's true that there is a double standard regarding this topic? if the guy cheats, he's hot stuff because he can have more than one girl but if the girl cheats, she's a tramp.
[x] yes
[ ] no

has the cheating rate increased over the years?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

if the individual was drunk and cheated on his or her girlfriend, is it easier to forgive?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] unsure

are you in a serious relationship right now?
[ ] yes
[x] no

if so, do you ever doubt your girlfriend or boyfriend's faithfulness?
[ ] yes
[x] no
[ ] prefer not to answer

if there is a secret affair, is it likely to ocme out in the open eventually?
[x] yes
[ ] no

do you think that if there was a guaranteed way for no one to find out about affairs, would more people cheat?
[x] yes
[ ] no
[ ] unsure

do you think it's ok to cheat?
[ ] yes
[x] no